Interview in The Hot Tub… Tim Cocker from XFM Manchester

Dad, radio presenter, and spa fan, The Hot Tub meets XFM Manchester’s Tim Cocker to talk work, play and the importance of building dens…

What are you up to at the moment?

At this precise moment I’m having a brew and a danish pastry in a Polish deli in Chorlton, my home in South Manchester. It’s currently that short but blissful window of time I get to myself in between finishing work for the day and picking the kids up from school. More generally what am I up to? I’m in my fifth year of hosting the XFM Manchester Breakfast Show. The latest project we’re working on is a world record for the highest number of men checking for testicular cancer. It’ll be a novel way to raise awareness… not to mention a sentence I never thought I’d write!

What do you most enjoy about your work?

The people and the stories! I’ve heard it all from listeners who never fail to make me and everyone listening laugh or cry. When I started on the radio my producer and I made a rule that nothing is sacred. We’ve shared everything from our lives; arguments, embarrassing moments, children’s births, the lot. If you leave yourself open and vulnerable I find people are willing to do the same.

What’s the strangest experience you have had in your career?

Recently Noel Gallagher co-hosted the Breakfast Show with me. It was amazing… but definitely strange. His music was the soundtrack of my youth, and this song-writing genius is sat down doing my show with me. It’d be like Michelangelo coming to help me paint the spare room. Surreal, but brilliant!

What has been your best experience in your career so far?

Come on… after that do you really need to ask? Other than Noel, it would be the moment I was offered a job on XFM . I was a teacher at a Sixth Form and decided to give the radio thing a go. I was sat there being offered a dream job. Inside I was doing somersaults and wanted to scream in celebration, but I had to “play it cool” in front of my new bosses.

When are you at your happiest?

I’d be indoors on a cold, wet, grey winter’s day with the wind howling a gale. Toasty warm from the fire roaring away, and snuggled under a blanket with my wife and kids watching a film.

Who do you admire?

Anyone who puts their passions first and does what they really want to or what they truly believe in. For example, I met a guy called Duncan Goose when we were both talking at a conference. He gave up a highly paid job in the city to earn a meagre wage and make big personal sacrifices to start the charity One Water which helps people who don’t have access to clean drinking water.

How do you relax?

By exercising (so I have that satisfying ache) and then putting my feet up in front of a game of rugby on the telly. I’ve stopped playing myself now but the game has been a massive part of my life. My brother plays for London Irish and my family is rugby mad. A couple of hours to watch a game will do me any day.

Where does your inspiration come from?

Close friends and family. My children have had an amazing day if they’ve built a den with a sheet and a couple of chairs. My wife and good friends aren’t concerned by some of the little things I can agonise over at work. They constantly remind me what’s really important.

Who would play you in a movie?

Christian Slater. He plays a radio DJ in Pump Up The Volume which was partly responsible for me wanting to do it as a job. His English accent in Robin Hood Prince of Thieves is a bit dodgy though, so I’ll go for Christian Slater and a voice coach.

Do you have a favourite spa treatment and why?

I enjoy the pain, and then pleasure, of a deep tissue massage. Releasing those knots makes me walk an inch taller, sleep better and feel more alert.

Complete this sentence: a successful person is…

Someone who forgets about being who they think they should be and is confident enough to be who they are.

We like to encourage everyone to do one thing each week to be kind to themselves; what are you going to do to?

I’m going to go to bed really early. REALLY early! I’ll forget about sorting the house out, catching up on emails or doing laundry. My alarm goes off at 4:30am each morning for work and I’m happier, more productive and a better dad and husband if I’ve had a decent kip. It’s simple but it’s fundamental and I just don’t do it enough. I just wish my kids were as excited by the prospect of going to bed early.