What are the best Black Friday spa gifts for him?

A spa break or wellness retreat that blends relaxation with adventure, perhaps even a round of golf, can make a powerful gift. Here’s why these experiences are rising stars in the gift category — and some excellent resort picks to get inspired.

Why does a spa break make the perfect gift?

When you’re buying for him — whether that’s your dad, husband, brother or close friend — a spa day or weekend retreat ticks a number of gift boxes that ordinary presents often miss.

1. It’s an experience, not just an object

Rather than another piece of tech, cufflinks or cologne, a spa break is something to look forward to. It becomes a memory, a moment of pause, and something to savour.

2. It meets his need for down-time

Lots of men don’t prioritise wellness time or head off for spa days because they feel it’s not for them. Gifting a spa break helps to turn that narrative on its head and give them an opportunity to try something new. With a range of facilities, including sports/golf elements and quality treatments, it’s easy to make a spa break feel just as much about performance and recovery as it is about pampering.

3. It’s perfect timing for Black Friday

Black Friday is a great opportunity to secure something premium for less with special offers, discounts, and exclusive deals. You can present the voucher now and let him book later, for added excitement.

4. You’re giving him permission to switch off

There’s value in giving the gift of rest and recovery, especially if he’s balancing work, home, and other stresses. A spa and golf break offers both activity and repose: swing a club, then soak in a thermal pool. That duality makes it especially appealing.

Spa gift inspiration for him

There are lots of standout resorts to choose from, each combining spa facilities with strong leisure components as well as something extra special like unique treatments for a gift that ticks all the boxes. Here are a few favourites.

1. Golf and spa at The Belfry Hotel & Resort

A four-star resort in the Midlands countryside, The Belfry is famous for its golfing heritage and offers three 18-hole golf courses alongside a large spa with a Fire and Ice thermal experience. A package here might include dinner, bed and breakfast, use of the spa, and an option for a treatment or golf round. Perfect for a man who enjoys action but also appreciates top-tier rest.

2. Leisure and luxe at East Sussex National Golf Resort & Spa

Located in East Sussex, East Sussex National Golf Resort & Spa is a resort has a contemporary hotel overlooking an 18-hole championship golf course and the South Downs countryside. The spa has a heated indoor pool, aromatherapy room, monsoon shower, and a range of luxurious treatments. It lends itself beautifully to a leisure and luxe style gift where he can tee off one day, then recover with a massage the next.

3. Bathing in beer at Norfolk Mead Hotel

A four-star hotel in an elegant Georgian country house, the Norfolk Mead is a boutique retreat that's ideal for friends and couples spending quality time together. Owners Anna and James spent 20 years catering to the culinary needs of the McLaren drivers, mechanics and support team before turning their attention to hospitality, and they do it in style. Enjoy award-winning dining, and unique spa experiences such as a Beer Spa where you bathe in a hot tub containing vitamin-rich malt and hops from the local Woodforde’s Brewery.

4. Fitness at Foxhills Club & Resort

Set amongst 400 acres, Foxhills is Surrey’s premier golf and spa resort with a wealth of facilities for the whole family. Overnight guests enjoy use of the Country Club facilities including par three nine hole golf course, tennis and gym, with special resident’s rate for a round on the 18 hole Championship golf courses, ranked in the top 100 courses in England. Take the time to enjoy the thermal suite complete with a hammam, rasul, a relaxation area, gym, diagnostic suite, holistic studio, tennis and squash courts, outdoor running or nature trail, fitness classes, and four swimming pools. Then make sure you stay for dinner - it's a treat!

5. Countryside calm at Old Thorns Hotel & Resort

A luxury Hampshire escape, Old Thorns Hotel & Resort is a four star destination with everything you need for a complete escape. In the South Downs National Park, it is perfectly situated for a visit to the South Coast and is just one hour and a half from London by car. It has its own golf course and panoramic countryside views, while the spa has a wellness suite complete with a 20-metre swimming pool surrounded by sliding doors onto an outside terrace complete with loungers. There’s also a sauna, aromatherapy steam room, Jacuzzi, hotbeds, and foot baths.

How to pick the right one

• Think about his hobbies: If he loves golf, pick a resort with a course included. If fitness or sports recovery is the focus, a resort with strong wellness-/sports-massage offering is ideal.
• Consider the timing: Black Friday deals may lock in now but allow booking later — great for flexible schedules.
• Voucher flexibility: Many spa gift vouchers allow redeeming at a future date — so pick a generous voucher if you’re unsure of timing.
• Location and access: Prefer somewhere within one to two hours drive if it’s a solo or weekend break — easier to fit into busy lives.

When it comes to Black Friday and gift-giving for him, spa breaks bring something genuinely different: a mixture of leisure, sport, rest and excellence. Whether he’s a golfer, a fitness-lover or someone who simply needs a break, one of these resort stays can deliver.